You have sensed something is not right with your marriage but can not figure it out. Believe it or not, women as well as men cheat on their spouses. It is a lot easier to figure out if your wife is cheating on you if you know why married women cheat and with what they cheat.
Married women cheat for different reasons than those of men. Men see it as a game and an accomplishment. Women, in most cases, do not cheat on their husbands for this reason. Here are some of the reasons why married women cheat on their husbands.
1. Women cheat because they feel unappreciated. They raise the kids, clean the house, shop for groceries and cook the meals, but they do not get very much love or recognition for it. The man of the house feels as though this is just the wife's job and she does not have to be thanked for it often, if ever. The husband may feel that is just the way it is … wrong. As soon as another man starts to recognize how hard your wife works and how great she is with her kids and compliments her on it, trouble begins. She sure does not get that kind of recognition at home from the wild kids or the couch potato husband.
2. Women, in general, like the idea of dating. Think about it. One of the suggestions from marriage counselors is to have a "date night" with your wife. The thought of dressing up, going out to a nice restaurant and maybe a movie just turns women on. If you want to keep your wife, it is a good idea to take her out as often as possible. It does not have to be expensive, but it does need to be fun and exciting.
3. Some women cheat on their husbands with other women. It is very common for a married woman to cheat and have sex with her girlfriend. It starts innocent enough, but may turn into a love affair. She may feel it is safe, available and gives her a chance to explore her sexual side without having to worry about pregnancy or most diseases. Most men never suspect their wife is having an affair with another woman, and most women think that men got turned on by the idea so she may not be as afraid of getting caught.
4. Some married women cheat for the sex. If she is not getting enough at home or seeks variety, then she might look for a man or men to just have sex with, no strings attached. This type of cheating is very dangerous for her and her husband because of STDs and abusive men.
5. There are women that cheat because they want something they can not have. Some women seem to want the things or people that are unattainable. This might be the young guy down the street, the pool boy or the hunky movie star. She just may never be satisfied … no matter what.
Now that you know why married women cheat it is time to find out if your wife is really cheating.