Do you find it difficult to approach hot girls without getting immediately rejected? Sometimes it can feel like no matter what you do, they take one glance at you and decide that you're not funny / hot / interesting enough to talk to. That does not have to mean that you have a bad personality, just that you might be giving a poor first impression.
The first impression you can give is important, not only in dating, but also in life in general. If you can give a good first impression, you have a much better chance when approaching cute women. In this article you'll get a few tips on how to give a better first impression.
Here's how to make that first impression count:
1. Look your best.
No, you do not have to look like a photo model, or George Clooney, to give a good first impression. You just need to look like an interesting guy that takes care of himself. The easiest way to do this is to pay attention to what you're wearing and how you look. Before going out, make sure to take a shower and put on your best clothes. Women also focus a lot on what shoes a guy is wearing, so make sure they fit in with your outfit.
2. Be casual
Do not go out to a bar with an air of desperation around you. Girls can spot it from miles away, and they will turn you down for it. You should try to come across as a funny guy, just going out to enjoy yourself and have a good time. Do not start flirting wildly with a girl as soon as you start talking to her. Focus on being a fun, laid-back guy and the rest will follow.
3. Practice makes perfect
You need to just go out and do it, if you ever want to see progress. It's impossible to just read an article and soon become an expert at approaching girls. You have to learn how to deal with rejection, and think of it as a learning experience. Every rejection brings you one step closer to success.
Also, you should never use pick-up lines. The truth is that they just do not work. Women are really turned-off by them, and they'll reject you immediately if you pull one on them. Also, do not put all your effort into one girl. There are thousands of hot, single girls out there, so why limit yourself to one? There's no harm in bouncing around from one girl to another during the night, in fact you'll get a lot more experience that way.