Saturday, 23 September 2017

The Excitement of Cunnilingus in Sex

Part of the appeal of giving women oral sex is in the sheer passion, intensity and excitement of cunnilingus, together with the great intimacy it brings to the sexual relationship you have with your woman. There is also a sense of comfort and a release of stress in the act, which can be of great benefit to some guys.

Begin massaging the mons Venus and the whole vulva with the flat of your hand to get her used to the feel of you down there. After perhaps a relaxed 5-10 minutes of this, get into position between her legs, perhaps either by lying down with your hands in front of you or else by bringing your hands around her legs to reach the top of the vulva.

Start by kissing the mons for a time with short, little butterfly kisses, then slowly transition downwards to kiss all over the vulva’s outer, then inner, labia. Then use a light tongue, fairly flat, to make short, small licks all over the area to make it wet.

Then use a pointed tongue and a side-to-side motion to open the inner labia and expose the vestibule inside. Now position your upper lip so that it makes contact with the fleshy area just above the clitoral hood (this is called the front commissure). Press firmly and angle your head at about 45 degrees from being flush with the vulva, so that your nose is pressed into the mons Venus. Open your mouth wide and use a wide, flat tongue to lick very slowly from the bottom of the vestibule to the top where the clitoris is. Lick her in the style of an ice cream cone when you do this at first, making sure it takes about 10 seconds for you to reach the top. This long, slow lick will probably be the first one to elicit a moan or some kind of movement from her, if you were careful to sex her up before you started with a suitable amount of dirty talk and male dominance, both of which are absolutely necessary for a successful outcome.

Your next mission is then to very slowly increase speed and experiment with a range of tongue shapes and pressures and directions of motion to find the one she likes. This will be different each time you do it, so you will need to find it anew each time. Finding this may take some time and perhaps even several sessions, so be patient.

Once you have found it, repeat this movement. This is her “rhythm”. Absolutely maintain it at all costs – KEEP DOING IT AND DON’T CHANGE IT. She will then ride it all the way to orgasm!

Watching her hips move and her body undulate more and more as she gets turned on and rides her way to orgasm is a big turn-on for us guys. The sensation of being so close up to the most female part of her is very exciting, and the slick wetness of her vulva and the softness of her inner labia against your lips is incredibly intimate. This will give you a sense of “Oh, woman! I love you!” and what this does is create a sexual energy and passion that you can feel in your chest. Bring this passion to your lips by actually imagining it moving up your chest and into your mouth and onto your lips and tongue, then express it in the oral pleasure you are giving your woman without changing the rhythm. This adds intensity to what you are doing and she will sense it. This will allow her to surrender more to what you are doing and bring her much closer to orgasm.

Then, as the first wave of passion subsides, continue to maintain the rhythm as the next wave builds up inside you. Then, once again, bring it up to your lips and let the electricity fly across to her labia and give another intense licking, graduating to sucking her labia into your mouth with your lips and just letting the experience engulf you. Keep doing this with every wave, which will rise up within you faster and faster, until you forget to count the waves and let the whole world disappear until all your mind can think of is your lips and her wetness, and her undulating body. She will dig her heels into your lower back, which creates a wonderful comforting feeling and a tremendous release of stress for you.

Finally, as she reaches the brink of orgasm, stop, look up at her and smile, then go straight back in at the same rhythm, going crazy, licking everything in sight, in every direction. Her hands will grab the back of your head and pull you in and you will feel the vaginal contractions as she releases herself into a thunderous orgasm and the whole world is swept away.

So don’t think that cunnilingus is all about her and that there is nothing in it for you. Be confident and display your passion, and you will give yourself and her an experience you will never forget!



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